BY JIBRAN KHALIL As you’ll hear at the end, Arfa, youngest Microsoft Certied Professional at 10 years old had also settled on her philosophy of life, and committed it to memory. “If you want to do something big in your life, you must remember that shyness is only the mind,” she said. “If you think shy, you act shy. If you think confident you act confident. Therefore never let shyness conquer your mind.”